Friendship is a kind of relationship that many accompany you all your life. The relationship with your wife or husband occurs only after you are married and runs the risks of being cut down by porce. The relationship with your parents will be put to an end with their passing away. The relationship with your children begins late in the middle of your life. You have an association with your colleagues, but it is always changing, because one day, one or another colleague may disappear suddenly out of your routine by changing jobs and you may similarly jump out of your colleagues` lives. You have connection with your neighbors only for the sake of living in the same neighborhood and it will break down when you or one of your neighbors moves. Only friendship can be everlasting an steady. You may have friends as early as infancy. No matter whether you are married or not, no matter where you live and work, your friends are your friends. It is not based on bloodline. It is not absolutely an objective social relationship which befalls you. It is rooted in the desires and feelings derived from social experiences. It relies on your intention. In my opinion, that is the social nature of friendship. Making friends is to meet people`s varying needs. People have all kinds of desires. To achieve progress, you make friends with those who surpass you. To enjoy freedom, equality an mutual respect, you make friends with those who are of equal stature with you. On behalf of your vanity and relaxation you make friends with the inferior. To you, some friends are fun-loving, some give encouragement, some offer knowledge, and others help you to find your own identity. You expose your worries and weakness to some friends, while you show only your merits, your bright side, in the face of other
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友谊是一种关系,许多陪你一辈子。与你的妻子或丈夫的关系只发生在你都结婚了,离婚的风险被降低。与你父母的关系将结束与他们的逝去。与孩子的关系开始在你的生活。你和你的同事有个协会,但它总是在变化,因为有一天,一个或另一个同事可能消失突然从你的日常生活,不断的换工作,你可能同样跳出你的同事的生命。你与你的邻居只为了住在同一个小区,它将打破当你或者你的邻居的一个动作。只有友谊才能永远的稳定。你可以有朋友早在初级阶段。不管你是否结婚了,不管你在哪里生活和工作,你的朋友是你的朋友。它不是基于血统。它不是绝对客观社会关系降临你。它植根于欲望和感情来自社会经历。它依赖于你的意图。在我看来,这是友谊的社会性质。交朋友是满足人们的不同需求。人们有各种各样的欲望。取得进展,你和那些超越你的人交朋友。享受自由、平等相互尊重,你与人交朋友和你平等的地位。代表你的虚荣和放松你和劣质交朋友。给你,有些朋友是风趣的,有些给鼓励,提供一些知识,和其他人帮助你找到你自己的身份。你使你的忧虑和软弱一些朋友,当你只显示你的优点,你的光明的一面,面对其他的。
